Ethical Considerations When Contesting a Will

By Chris Tymchuck
Founding Attorney

It’s not easy to question someone’s final wishes. But sometimes, concerns arise that can’t be ignored. Maybe a will was changed under pressure. Maybe a loved one’s mental decline was overlooked. If you’re facing this kind of situation, you may wonder whether contesting the will is the right thing to do. If something doesn’t seem right, how do you know whether to speak up or stay silent?

Contesting a will is a legal option, but it also carries emotional and ethical weight. In Minnesota, not every will can—or should—be challenged. This blog explores when a challenge might be justified, what the process involves, and how to weigh the impact on family relationships and peace of mind.

When It Might Make Sense to Challenge a Will

Not all will contests are about money. In fact, many start because something just doesn’t feel right. Maybe a longtime caregiver suddenly becomes the main beneficiary. Or a parent who always treated children equally leaves everything to one child with no explanation.

Common reasons people consider contesting a will include:

  • The will reflects unexpected or suspicious changes
  • The person who signed the will may have lacked mental capacity
  • Someone may have exerted pressure or manipulated the situation
  • You believe another will exists but wasn’t presented

It’s worth pausing to think about your reasons. Are you trying to protect someone’s true wishes? Is it about fairness? The answer matters, and it’s something we talk through with every client who comes to us with questions.

Legal Grounds for Contesting a Will in Minnesota

Minnesota courts don’t allow will contests based on general feelings or family disagreements. There must be a valid legal reason. These include:

  • Lack of capacity: The person must have understood what they were signing, who their heirs were, and what property they owned.
  • Undue influence: Someone may have used manipulation or pressure to change the will in their favor.
  • Fraud or forgery: The will might not be legitimate or could have been signed under false pretenses.
  • Improper execution: Minnesota law requires specific formalities, such as witness signatures. A will that doesn’t meet these may be challenged.

These claims are serious and require evidence. If you’re considering this step, it helps to work with an attorney who can assess the strength of your case before filing anything in court.

Time Limits Matter

There are legal deadlines for contesting a will in Minnesota, but the rules can vary depending on the type of probate and when it was filed. In general, you must act within a limited period of time after the decedent’s death or the start of probate, whichever applies to your situation.

Missing these deadlines could prevent you from bringing a claim, even if your concerns are valid. Because the time limits can be technical and depend on specific circumstances, it’s important to consult an attorney as soon as possible if you think a will may be invalid or unfair.

How These Disputes Can Affect Families

A will contest doesn’t happen in a vacuum. It affects real relationships. You might find yourself in conflict with siblings, stepparents, or extended relatives. Even if your reasons are valid, others may not see it the same way.

Think carefully about:

  • How this might affect family holidays or future communication
  • Whether you’re prepared for the emotional toll of litigation
  • Whether resolving the issue would bring clarity or further division

Sometimes, just knowing your concerns were heard and evaluated can bring peace, even if you decide not to proceed.

Mediation as an Alternative to Court

Before taking your case to court, you might consider mediation. This is a private process in which all parties sit down with a neutral third party to work toward a solution.

Benefits of mediation include:

  • Preserving family relationships by avoiding a public legal battle
  • Reaching a faster and less costly resolution
  • Having more control over the outcome

Mediation doesn’t work in every case, especially where fraud or abuse is suspected. But for some families, it provides a more thoughtful and flexible path forward.

The Reality of Challenging a Will

Contesting a will is hard, not just emotionally, but legally. Minnesota courts start from the assumption that a validly signed will reflects the true intent of the person who wrote it. Changing that outcome means providing clear, convincing evidence to the contrary.

Still, if you believe something is truly wrong, you have the right to speak up. Many families feel a sense of relief just from having their concerns taken seriously and exploring their options.

Talk to Unique Estate Law About Your Concerns

At Unique Estate Law, we help Minnesotans approach will contests with clarity, honesty, and compassion. We know these situations are rarely black and white. If you have questions about a loved one’s will, or about your rights, we’re here to listen and help you decide the right path forward. Contact Unique Estate Law today for a confidential consultation.

About the Author
As a Minneapolis Estate Planning and Probate attorney I help build and protect families through the adoption, estate planning, and probate processes. I also have experience working with families on issues related to their small businesses. I know how difficult it is to find time to plan for the future and I am here to help walk you through it.