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Estate Planning for LGBTQ Seniors: How to Protect Yourself and Loved Ones in an Uncertain Political Climate

By Chris Tymchuck
Founding Attorney

For many LGBTQ seniors, the thought of leaving their future to chance is unsettling, especially with the potential for political changes that could affect their rights. Have you considered what would happen if your wishes weren’t clearly documented? Estate planning offers a way to take control and safeguard your rights, relationships, and legacy. By being proactive, you can make sure your decisions reflect your values and protect those you care about most. It’s about creating security and knowing that, no matter what happens, you’ve taken the right steps to protect yourself and your loved ones.

Legal Documents to Safeguard Seniors’ Wishes

Having the right legal documents in place ensures your decisions and values are respected, even if you’re unable to advocate for yourself. These essential tools provide clarity and protect seniors’ interests:  

  • Wills and Trusts: Clearly outline how your assets will be distributed and help ensure they go to the people or causes you choose.  
  • Healthcare Directives: Designate someone to make medical decisions on your behalf and provide instructions for your care if you’re unable to.  
  • HIPAA Authorization: Allow designated individuals access to your medical records so they can make informed decisions about your care.
  • Durable Power of Attorney: Appoint a trusted individual to manage financial matters, such as paying bills or handling property, should you become incapacitated.  
  • Beneficiary Designations: Keep these updated on accounts like life insurance or retirement plans to reflect your current wishes.   

These documents give you control over critical decisions, helping to protect your loved ones and avoid legal complications. 

Protecting Your Relationships

Your relationships, whether with a partner, children, or chosen family, are at the heart of your life. Estate planning helps formalize these connections and ensures your loved ones are legally recognized and protected.  

  • Unmarried Partners: Without legal documents, unmarried partners may have no standing in decisions about healthcare, inheritance, or property. Creating wills, trusts, or cohabitation agreements ensures your partner’s role is honored.  
  • Families with Children: LGBTQ parents can secure their parental rights through legal steps like adoption or guardianship designations. These measures protect your children and ensure they remain with the family you’ve built.  
  • Chosen Families: For many LGBTQ individuals, chosen family members are as important as biological relatives. Estate planning allows you to include these individuals in your healthcare, financial decisions, and inheritance plans.  

By proactively addressing these relationships, you can ensure the people you love are cared for and respected.

Preparing for Policy Changes

With shifting political climates, it’s wise to prepare for potential changes that could impact your rights or those of your loved ones. Estate planning provides a way to safeguard your future, no matter what happens at the state or federal level.  

  • Regular Updates: Laws affecting LGBTQ rights, healthcare, and estate planning may change in these uncertain times. Review and update your documents regularly to ensure they remain valid and reflect your wishes.  
  • Asset Protection Strategies: Consider options like trusts or joint ownership to protect your property and assets from legal challenges. These tools can offer added security while maintaining your control.  
  • Staying Informed: Keeping up with policy changes ensures you can adapt your plans if necessary. Work with someone who understands your concerns and priorities to stay ahead of potential legal shifts.  
  • Collaboration with Support Networks: Include trusted family members, partners, or chosen family in the planning process to ensure your wishes are clear and supported.

Proactive planning gives you peace of mind, knowing you’re ready for whatever the future may bring. 

How We Can Help You Plan with Confidence

At Unique Estate Law, we are dedicated to helping LGBTQ older adults create estate plans that protect their rights and reflect their values. We take the time to understand your priorities and craft personalized solutions to safeguard your loved ones, assets, and future. Whether you’re addressing relationships, financial security, or potential policy changes, we’re here to provide the guidance and support you need. Contact us today to start planning with confidence and peace of mind.

About the Author
As a Minneapolis Estate Planning and Probate attorney I help build and protect families through the adoption, estate planning, and probate processes. I also have experience working with families on issues related to their small businesses. I know how difficult it is to find time to plan for the future and I am here to help walk you through it.